The practice of living in alignment with her talents, intuition and desires has led Isandra to discover the roles through which she has been able to work in service of her life’s purpose throughout different stages of her life.
Isandra holds a B.A. in Social Sciences and a Juris Doctor, both from the University of Puerto Rico, and for several years was committed to support the well-being of society through the practice of the legal profession. When motherhood became her priority, new experiences inspired her to explore additional ways to contribute in service of a better world.
Eventually, transformative education emerged as her passion and she now supports the empowerment of children and adults through her roles as Character Education teacher, Calling in "The One" Relationship Coach, Conscious Uncoupling Relationship Coach, Certified Money Coach and FranklinCovey (The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People) Consultant. It greatly inspires her to witness people light up with the joy of clarity when she shares the knowledge and best practices of each of these programs in a diversity of scenarios—in both English and Spanish—including the school classroom, seminars, workshops, online events, podcasts, television and radio presentations.
Curious to know more about what led her to become a relationship coach? Read the story here.
At its core, my life’s purpose is about contributing to the evolution of consciousness and the co-creation of a happy, loving world. I believe this vision can be possible if we each do our best to heal from our inner limitations and intentionally become skillful in living together from a place of authenticity, truth and HAPPY HEALTHY LOVE.
~ Isandra
How Calling in “The One” and Conscious Uncoupling
Came into My Life — and Stayed
I am the child of parents that divorced in the 80’s – when divorce what a mysterious, uncommon and a quite dreaded taboo. A divorce that also had huge financial implications as it happened alongside my parent’s personal bankruptcy. Those were hard times for me and for everyone involved.
Decades later, in the face of my imminent separation and divorce, my number one priority was the emotional health of our children. Then ourselves and that of everyone affected by this development. I was determined to make the transition in the best way possible. For me, this included to emerge whole, confident, and still believe in love.
In my quest for support resources, I felt guided to reach out for a book I had bought as a gift to one of my single friends: Calling in “The One”: 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life by Katherine Woodward Thomas.
Little did I know that this book, with a name not really suited for the situation at hand, would become one of the best gifts I have ever given myself.
Fortunately, I trusted this knowing and worked through the book during the exact seven weeks in which it was suggested to be done.
The work I did with myself transformed my perspective, changed my way of being, and shifted the course of my entire life.
In fact, several new chapters began taking root for me within those seven weeks, both personally and professionally. It was very clear that I had learned to walk with a firmer step as a result of calling in and deeply connecting with the very “One” that I am.
The vortex I had stepped into then was so powerful that, even when I had never considered something like it, only seven days after finishing reading the book, I traveled from Puerto Rico to California to begin training as a Calling in “The One” Coach.
Had it been 2015, the year the Conscious Uncoupling, 5 Steps to Living Happy Even After book was published, instead of 2010, it’s probable that none of this would have happened. I can guess that in the midst of my marital crisis I would have found and read the Conscious Uncoupling book and most probably, my then husband would have done so, too.
But that book had not yet been published and life was amazing enough to guide me to what I believe was the next best thing: Katherine—the author of both books, and now my mentor and friend—and the life-transforming work she had available at the time.
My Experience with Calling in "The One"
A while after the completion of my Calling in “The One” coaching certification in 2010, I began supporting Katherine’s online programs and have since become a mentor coach to the new generation of coaches in training. Having been inside this work for many years, I have experienced the Calling in “The One” process several times ever since the days when I was navigating a possible separation from an 19-year marriage.
To this day, the process is continually blessing me with more clarity, freedom and trust in my capacity to have and sustain happy, healthy, loving relationships everywhere I go.
Since the beginning, my Calling in “The One” experience has revealed to me that the wisely orchestrated seven-week process is much more than a program that can help you become ready to attract a particular one person that is your soulmate. It’s also a guide about manifesting, miracle working and co-creating your best life. This program is a call to integrity and to what living in integrity can create—a beautiful, unprecedented life abundant in love and joy.
I can joyously say that I have attracted constant love and support in all areas of my life, and this includes being blessed with the company of people who have beautiful qualities and are aligned with my core values and evolving interests. I have also witnessed hundreds of people flourish into happier, healthier, more loving lives, having generated love in the company of a romantic partner, within their families, inside the workplace, and, most importantly, within themselves.
Regardless of what’s happening in your relationships at the moment, if healing, transforming or upgrading the quality, health, and happiness of your relationships is something you desire, I would be honored to partner with you in achieving these goals.
Learn more about working with me as your Calling in "The One" coach.
My Experience with Conscious Uncoupling
Several years before publishing the book of the same name, Katherine’s Conscious Uncoupling online program became available in December of 2011. By the time I was already well inside the process of being consciously uncoupled from my 19-year marriage. Still, curious about how the online program could help me, I signed up.
As I participated in the program, I discovered that even though my former husband and I had done quite well on our own, the online program did prove to be a wonderful support for me. It also validated the good decisions we had been taking together and offered me fresh perspectives on the areas in which he and I could still do much better.
This was definitely the book that I would have wanted my ex-husband and I to read together. With its wisdom and guidance, we could have done even better than we did on our own. We also would have been able to opt for hiring a certified Conscious Uncoupling coach, which would have undoubtedly catapulted us to a new level of wholehearted uncoupling. I wish that everyone navigating a heartbreaking parting of ways could have access to some form of the Conscious Uncoupling perspectives and practices—especially if there are children involved. In service to this mission I became a Conscious Uncoupling Coach.
My Relationship with Money and My Money Coaching Journey
Dealing with my finances was never my favorite thing. And that had its consequences- especially after my divorce. Yet, thinking about money had always been a source of anxiety for me. I guess that watching your family lose two cars plus the family home during my teenage years, had a lot to do with that.
Fortunately, after a deep dive into this area of my life, living with anxiety around money matters is now a thing of my past. The relationship I had with money has become a more conscious and healthier one. A gift I have also been able to pass on to my children as they enter adulthood.
And for this I have deep gratitude for my mentors Mara Liz Meinhofer and Deborah L. Price.
Mara Liz, founder of the Financial Clarity Academy, is my personal finance teacher and guru. She also had the wisdom to encourage me to explore the Money Coaching experience as conceived by Deborah, founder of the Money Coaching Institute and pioneer in the field of behavioral Money Coaching. Deborah is my Money Coach, Money Coaching teacher and mentor. Working with her prepared me to take my relationship coaching practice to the next level. After all, money is at the center of many relationship conflicts and unhealthy money behaviors impact personal wellbeing in multiple ways.
Consequently, Money Coaching has become the perfect tool to support my clients clear out their unhealthy ways with money and step confidently into possibilities that once seemed unattainable. And not only for their personal fulfillment, but also for the wellbeing of their romantic unions, the modeling to their children, extended family dynamics and even business partnerships. And in any area of life where money issues have been controlling the quality of life of all involved.
