HAPPY HEALTHY LOVE


through Conscious Uncoupling™



If you have found your way here, this must be a vulnerable and tender time for you.

ARE YOU

Experiencing a relationship that is falling apart?

Considering a separation or going through a divorce?

Still recovering from a recent breakup?

Noticing that there is no closure from a relationship in your past?

Sensing it’s time to uncouple from a non-romantic relationship and not knowing where to begin?

IF SO, YOU MAY BE

Intensely wanting to avoid staying shattered by the effects of the breakup.

Striving to minimize the damage to all involved, and protect your children from unnecessary pain.

Looking for advice, coping skills and strategies that will help you manage your strong emotions and feelings of anxiety, grief, or guilt.

Deeply desiring to believe that you will not make the same ineffective decisions again.

YOU MAY ALSO

Be known for your big heart and trustworthy nature.

Be driven by a desire to proceed with integrity, kindness and in amicable ways.

Be seeking for clarity that can guide your next steps.

Be looking for the right partner to guide and support you through this difficult journey.

ARE YOU

Experiencing a relationship that is falling apart?

Considering a separation or going through a divorce?

Still recovering from a recent breakup?

Noticing that there is no closure from a relationship in your past?

Sensing it’s time to uncouple from a non-romantic relationship and not knowing where to begin?


IF SO, YOU MAY BE

Intensely wanting to avoid staying shattered by the effects of the breakup.

Striving to minimize the damage to all involved, and protect your children from unnecessary pain.

Looking for advice, coping skills and strategies that will help you manage your strong emotions and feelings of anxiety, grief, or guilt.

Deeply desiring to believe that you will not make the same ineffective decisions again.


YOU MAY ALSO

Be known for your big heart and trustworthy nature.

Be driven by a desire to proceed with integrity, kindness and in amicable ways.

Be seeking for clarity that can guide your next steps.

Be looking for the right partner to guide and support you through this difficult journey.


AND ABOVE ALL YOU ARE LOOKING FOR WAYS TO

Gain freedom from any limiting relational dynamics.

Find peace among the chaos.

Turn your pain into a force for good.

Trust that no matter what has happened in your ending relationship, you will still be able to stand with dignity and experience a life full of Happy Healthy Love.

If these statements deeply resonate with you, then Conscious Uncoupling™—a powerful program that offers the practical tools and skills you’ll need to navigate the tender transition of a romantic union in a healthy and humane way—may be the answer to your prayers.

As the child of divorced parents, a divorcee from a 19-year marriage, and a certified Conscious Uncoupling relationship coach, trained and experienced in helping people move through the end of a relationship, I am qualified and willing to guide, help, and support you through this difficult time.



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"We recognize the power we hold to consciously evolve our collective behavior at the end of love to be reflective of the kinder world we aspire to create for ourselves, our children and our future generations."

—Katherine Woodward Thomas



Would you like to explore being coached by me at this difficult time?

Would you like to explore being coached by me at this difficult time?


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  • A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF MYSELF

    “Isandra was amazing. I found her at the perfect time, struggling with a separation and being a single mom. It was nice to be able to talk to someone, get advice and not worry about being judged. She made me think about things I never even considered before and which helped me get a better understanding of myself.” —B.

  • CRUCIAL TO HELP THINGS ALONG

    “Isandra created a space that allowed me to be very authentic. Through the way she conducted the session, Isandra created the openness and space to allow me to start to reveal information that was crucial to help things along.” —J.


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Katherine and Isandra

Los Angeles, 2017

More about Conscious Uncoupling

Conscious Uncoupling is a term used to name a breakup or divorce that is characterized by a tremendous amount of goodwill, generosity, and respect, where those separating strive to do minimal damage to themselves, to each other, and to their children. It envisions ways to intentionally create new agreements and structures designed to set everyone up to win, flourish and thrive, thus moving forward in life. 

A Conscious Uncoupling is characterized for its bountiful acts of kindness, the big-hearted gestures of goodness offered, and the genuine efforts made to do the right things and for the right reasons.

And Conscious Uncoupling is also the name for a five-step process that can guide you in achieving just that. This process was created by my personal teacher, mentor and colleague, Katherine Woodward Thomas. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, and author of the national bestseller book Calling in "The One" and of the New York Times Bestseller book Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After.

Since Katherine began teaching these tools and practices in 2009, Conscious Uncoupling has helped thousands of people become leaders of their own well-being regardless of the painful journey the end of a relationship is likely to be. Today, Conscious Uncoupling is practiced in different parts of the world and the positive impact of people striving to be consciously uncoupled when their romantic relationship has served its purpose, extends to their children, families and even their communities.

How does the Conscious Uncoupling process work?


The 5 steps of the Conscious Uncoupling process will take you through different stages of inner work and transformational practices at your own pace. This experience will provide you with a greater awareness on how your relationship has played out and provides a clear guidance on how you can move forward through the ending of the previous form of the relationship. You will also be encouraged and supported to make healthy and wholesome decisions that are in alignment with great integrity- regardless of where things have been headed so far.

You can engage the Conscious Uncoupling book on your own, and/or you can also opt for private coaching sessions. These sessions are available through certified facilitators like myself, who can support you in staying focused, foster your accountability, and help you increase the possibility of achieving a life-changing transformation that will positively impact the quality of your life at this difficult time and beyond.

The process can be experienced with or without the participation of your former partner. However, when both parties choose to be coached through the program, they will need to hire one coach per person.

In all, Conscious Uncoupling is a gateway to building a foundation for having ongoing Happy Healthy Love in your life.

Is Conscious Uncoupling for me?


Conscious Uncoupling coaching could be for you if your heart aches from a breakup and:

  • You carry strong emotions like anger, guilt and sadness and are in need of managing grief
  • You don’t want the end of the relationship to be harder than it has to be for everyone involved, especially children
  • You’re still attached to a relationship from the past that was not properly healed
  • You’re looking for clarity, guidance and support
  • You don’t want to lose faith in loving again

If any of the above apply to you, do trust that, you have the power to heal your wounds, evolve and grow from these painful and difficult circumstances, take the lead in making this process the best it can be and through it all awaken to a life full of Happy Healthy Love.

Praise for
Conscious Uncoupling


"With uncommon clarity, intelligence and depth, Katherine brilliantly leads us step-by-step to navigate our way to the highest potentials of our relationships, and allows for unconditional love to prevail. She is one of the wisest women I know."
—Marci Shimoff
NY Times bestselling author
of Happy for No Reason

Conscious Uncoupling's 5 Steps
to Living Happily Even After


Step 1: Find Emotional Freedom

Learn how to harness intense and difficult emotions and transform them into constructive energies for positive change and the co-creation of a new life.

Step 2: Reclaim Your Power and Your Life

Discover your role and responsibility about how things played out in your relationship in order to be in a better position to do things differently moving forward.

Step 3: Break the Pattern, Heal Your Heart

Find your source-fracture wound and access the key to heal and transform any ways of being that have operated against your best interests.

Step 4: Become a Love Alchemist

Allow your acts of goodwill to set the foundation for the quality of the life you want to create.

Step 5: Create Your Happily-Even-After Life

Create new support structures and extend the impact of your good natured transition to include the well-being of your family, friends, and communities.

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Happy Healthy Love truly begins with you.




You’re welcome to book a free call through which we’ll explore if Conscious Uncoupling is right for you.


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